Disclosure: This is a sponsored post. I received product and/or compensation in exchange for stating my personal opinions.
It's the time of year when finding a good deal seems to be on everyone's priority list. I guess that's what makes Black Friday and Cyber Monday so popular. But you don't have to wait until after Thanksgiving to jump on deals. Not when you visit the Groupon website and do some shopping there!
I love Groupon for a variety of reasons, especially their Health, Beauty & Wellness Groupons. Why? Because that's where you find the deals on massages in your area. Ahhhhh. Massage gift certificates make awesome gifts (hint, hint) and when you buy them at a significant discount, what could be better. You can stick to your budget and still reward your friends, co-workers, and family with gifts that will delight!
But who says you need to reserve your massage Groupons to give as gifts? After all, we busy moms, grandmas, aunts, nannies... you know, we busy women... all need a little pampering, too. Especially during the hectic holiday months. Right? Of course. With all the decorating, shopping, baking, shopping, cooking, shopping, card writing, shopping, party hosting... whew... with all of that, we have to take an hour or two for ourselves and just relax. So go ahead -- treat yourself. You deserve it. And Groupon can make it happen! And make sure you follow Groupon on Facebook and Twitter to keep up with all their great money-saving opportunities!
I think I'll head over there and check out some of the current Groupons myself.
Happy shopping!
Thursday, November 17, 2016
Wednesday, November 16, 2016
Winner's Choice of Chibebe Snuggle Pod Giveaway! $99 RV!
Sponsored By: Chibebe
Hosted By: Love, Mrs. Mommy
Co-Hosted By:
Winner Will Receive:
Their choice of Snuggle Pod and Seat Cover! A $99 RV
(beans not included)
Chibebe is the world’s #1 baby beanbag! The Chibebe Snuggle Pod was originally designed to help prevent reflux and flathead symptoms, but that’s not all! These adorable snuggle pods grow with your baby for many years down the road (great for all ages) and come in a variety of stylish, exclusive designs. They not only look amazing, but so is their quality! Chibebe has high standards of safety, so much so that they are laboratory tested to not only meet, but exceed USA and Australian standards!
Please note that the beans are not included. However they are inexpensive and can be purchased at any number of online and brick-and-mortar locations.
Open To US and must be 18+ to enter
Giveaway Dates ~ 11/16 9:00 AM -- 11/30 11:59 PM EST
Good luck!
Good luck!
Disclosure: Love, Mrs. Mommy and all participating bloggers are not held responsible for sponsors who do not fulfill their prize obligations. Love, Mrs. Mommy received a Chibebe Snuggle Pod at no cost to facilitate the above-mentioned review. This giveaway is in no way endorsed or sponsored by Facebook or any other social media site. The winner will be randomly drawn by Giveaway Tools and will be notified by email. Winner has 48 hours to reply before a replacement winner will be drawn. If you would like to participate in an event like this please contact LoveMrsMommy (at) gmail (dot) com.
Monday, November 14, 2016
Recycling. Are you stumped as to what to recycle and where? Maybe this will help.
Tomorrow, November 15th, is America Recycles Day. There are activities planned all across the country to raise awareness and to encourage everyone to step up their game when it comes to recycling.
My husband and I have talked about it and can't find any way to improve the recycling practices already in play in our home. I'm sure many of you feel the same way.
But you'll probably also agree with us when I say that the biggest challenge to recycling is knowing what can be recycled and where to recycle various items.
At AmericaRecyclesDay.org, there is a handy resource to find recycling centers close to home. Just click here and scroll down to see what can be recycled and where. From shoes to toasters to plastic bags, they have the answers for you.
Tomorrow and every day, let's show our family, friends, and neighbors how dedicated we are to protecting our planet by limiting what goes into the landfill. Future generations will thank us for it!
Recycling right alongside you,
Saturday, November 12, 2016
Weekend Quote
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| Image by Axelle B |
"Then join hand in hand,
brave Americans all!
By uniting we stand,
by dividing we fall."
John Dickinson
The Liberty Song 1768
Friday, November 11, 2016
Can You Go Green and Still Use Technology?
Electronics are often produced with
toxic chemicals and heavy metals. Due to the manufacturing process, many
gadgets aren’t exactly eco-friendly. However, living without modern technology
isn’t for everyone, and certain career choices make it impossible to avoid
using the Internet or having a smartphone on hand.
Those trying to live a green lifestyle wrestle with the question of whether or not technology can fit into their way of life.
So, is it possible to go green and still use technology? Here are a few considerations that
might be able to answer that question.
Surprisingly, certain electronics are
manufactured in a more eco-friendly manner, and EPEAT has a database of
hundreds of gadgets that have a less negative impact on the environment
overall. EPEAT’s
registry uses medals to rate different electronics, and you can
search by manufacturer, type of device and country to find what you’re looking
for. At the moment, you can only search for computers and displays, imaging
equipment and TVs, but hopefully more categories will become available in the
future.
If you can’t find what you’re looking
for on EPEAT’s registry, consider contacting the manufacturer of the device you
own or are interested in for more information. Another option is checking Energy
Star’s website to find which products are certified as being energy
efficient. Though Energy Star won’t tell you whether or not specific
electronics are manufactured in a more eco-friendly way, they can give you an
idea of how much power something consumes relative to similar devices.
Prolonging
Device Lifespan
Once you have your devices, it’s
important to make them last. Even if they made it on to EPEAT’s registry, you
can reduce waste by using them for as long as possible. One way to do this is
to use security software and other preventative measures to keep your gadgets
in tip-top shape.
If security software can be used (such
as on computers, tablets, and smartphones), consider installing an anti-virus
and using a Virtual Private Network (VPN) service. An anti-virus will detect
malware and viruses on your device and assist in removing them whenever possible.
A VPN service works to safeguard your privacy and protect against hackers.
Most importantly, the proper software
can prevent Internet-enabled devices from crashing due to a cyber-attack.
Another way to prolong the lifespan of your device is to update software and operating
systems as often as possible. This protects from hackers, too, by patching up
vulnerabilities within your software that might make a cyber-attack easier.
Reducing
Electricity Usage
Besides using only Energy Star
certified products, you can reduce your electricity usage when using your
gadgets. Some devices have power-saving modes you can enable, and that will
help you keep the battery from draining as quickly. To see if this is a
possibility on your device, look through the settings.
Another way you can reduce electricity
usage is to remind yourself to turn off or shut down your devices when they’re
not in use and unplug them. Consider making it a part of your daily routine so
it becomes habit. Using a power strip in your home can make this process
easier, as you will simply have to turn the power strip’s switch on and off
instead of unplugging chargers and other devices you aren’t using. This is especially
important because power is still supplied to your gadgets when they’re plugged
in but not in use!
If your device does end up crashing and
becoming unusable, you can recycle—or upcycle—it to reduce waste and prevent
more potentially harmful chemicals from ending up in the landfills. Though your
waste management company who picks up your recyclables every week isn’t likely
to pick up any electronics for recycling, you can find an electronic recycle
center nearby.
Best Buy is a
well-known company that has an electronic recycling drop-off box, but if you
don’t have a Best Buy nearby, no need to worry. The Earth911 Recycling site will provide you with a list of places
where you can take your gadgets to dispose of them safely. Another option is
to offer your items to a repair specialist who might want them for parts.
For example, if you have a computer or
appliance that is no longer usable, contact the appropriate repairs specialists
to see if they would make use of them in any way. You could also reach out to
local artists who like to upcycle old tech—perhaps they can use some of the
components in a sculpture.
Using
One Device to Go Green
Technology can be a tricky subject when
it comes to going green, but so long as you prolong the lifespan of your
devices (electronics, in particular) and dispose of them properly, that can be
helpful. With a smartphone or tablet, you can literally use one device to
complete a variety of tasks and as an alternative to purchasing additional
items. For example, a smartphone or tablet can replace a camera or MP3 player
entirely. With the use of apps on these sorts of devices, you can forgo buying
measuring tools, pedometers, calculators, radios, clocks and more!
Think of how many of the above items
end up in the landfills every year. So, in a sense, you can go green and still
use technology. It all depends on whether or not you’re using it responsibly
and choosing the most sustainable products available.
About
the Author: Cassie is a tech writer for Secure Thoughts. When she’s
not busy writing, she’s looking for additional ways to reduce her carbon
footprint. Most of all, she enjoys sharing tips that can help others go green
without completely avoiding modern technology.
Thursday, November 10, 2016
Coconut Essentials Coconut Baby Moisturizer Giveaway! 13 Winners!
Sponsored By: Coconut Essentials
Hosted By: Love, Mrs. Mommy
I, for one, LOVE using coconut oil for a variety of purposes.
Now you can pamper your baby organically and all naturally. Coconut Baby uses certified organic coconut oil and other natural products to nourish a baby's delicate skin without using harsh chemicals, dyes, or perfumes. Can also be used to treat cradle cap in newborns.
13 Winners!!
3 Winners will receive a Coconut Baby moisturizer!
10 Runners-Up will each receive a $3.00 off coupon!
Open To US entries - Must be 18+ to enter Giveaway
Dates ~ 11/10 12:01 AM EST through 11/24 11:59 PM EST
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Disclosure: Love, Mrs. Mommy is not held responsible for sponsors who do not fulfill their prize obligations. Love, Mrs. Mommy received nominal monetary compensation to host this giveaway. This giveaway is in no way endorsed or sponsored by Facebook or any other social media site. The winner will be randomly drawn by Giveaway Tools and will be notified by email. Winner has 48 hours to reply before a replacement winner will be drawn. If you would like to participate in an event like this please contact LoveMrsMommy (at) gmail (dot) com.
Wednesday, November 9, 2016
The morning after
I am taking a break from the blog today to allow everyone to process the election results. I'll be back tomorrow.
Tuesday, November 8, 2016
Election Day 2016
So, here it is, election day 2016. For some, it's the most exciting day ever. Others find it depressing and frightening. Those of us in the U.S. live in a country divided. And no matter what the results, nearly half the nation will be disappointed, if not devastated. It is a sad state of affairs.
During my lifetime, I've never experienced an election like this one. Yes, there are those passionate about their choice on both sides. But, according to many I speak with, there are just as many who are voting for "the lesser of two evils." How incredibly sad is that? Or they're voting for a third party simply because they can not stomach voting for either of the other two candidates.
Some are voting based on gender, celebrating the possibility of a woman president. That's one I don't get. If you are voting simply because of the gender of the candidate, you are missing the point. Same was true during the last two elections when people voted based on the color of skin. Come on. There HAS to be more to it. Voting for policies and ideologies is one thing. Voting for gender or skin color is another altogether.
Some are voting based on the whole reality star sensationalism that has gripped the country. I can't even comment on that. It's too ludicrous.
Based on the political commercials (for all offices), we know little about the actual candidates' strengths. The mudslinging has mucked that all up. I mean, seriously. If, in order to be elected, you have to tear down your opponent, all you're doing is asking people to vote for you to avoid voting for them. Ridiculous.
Of course, we all had the chance to watch the debates to find out what the presidential candidates stood for. But it was like watching a three-ring circus or a Saturday Night Live satire. Where was the integrity??
Deep sigh. I, like many of you, am weary. I'm heading off to do my civic duty soon. But I'm not doing it with the enthusiasm and hope I've had in the past. Tomorrow, hopefully, it will all be over. Of course, there could always be issues raised by the defeated party and they could drag this on a little longer. My hope, however, is that there will be a gracious loser who will concede with grace. Based on the two candidates running, that's unlikely to happen.
Wishing you a peaceful day and night.
Saturday, November 5, 2016
Weekend Quote
| Photo by Frames of Infinity |
"Tenacity is of utmost importance
throughout the entire process.
If an adoptive mom really wants to breastfeed,
chances are good it will happen."
~Bethany Schad
Friday, November 4, 2016
Vinegar Friday -- A remedy for anxiety
I don't know about you, but I tend to get a little anxious in the last couple months of the year. After all, there seems to be so much to do! Thanksgiving's right around the corner, followed by Christmas. Ack! Holiday anxiety is peering around every corner. And then there's the whole "look at all I didn't accomplish this year" angst that accompanies the closing out of one year and the dawning of the next. Or am I the only one who feels that way?
And what does all this have to do with vinegar?
Well, it just so happens, in Chapter 10 of my book, I give a couple of tips for easing anxiety with vinegar. Like this one:
Instead of reaching for a beer or a bloody Mary at the end of a stressful day, opt for this calming cocktail:
Add 1 tablespoon of ACV (raw, organic, unfiltered apple cider vinegar) to 1 cup of boiling water. Simmer for 2-3 minutes and then add a cinnamon stick and some honey. You can even add throw in a tea bag of chamomile to ease the anxiety even faster. Obviously, you want to let the drink cool down a bit before imbibing. Then get ready to chill as your anxiety melts away.
For angina attacks, I offer this advice:
Most often, angina is caused by a lack of blood and oxygen reaching the cells of your heart muscle. The reason? Emotional upset of some kind. The image that comes to my mind is of Fred Sanford grasping his chest and crying, "I'm coming to join you, Elizabeth!" If you cannot relax your way out of an attack of angina, try this herbal remedy:
Brew a cup of chamomile tea and add 1 teaspoon of apple cider vinegar. Add honey to flavor the tea. Sip the tea instead of heading to the ER. Of course, you cannot just assume it is angina and not a heart attack, so be smart about it. Like I always say, use your common sense!
Why does this work? Well, it seems that vinegar can act as a mild sedative. Researchers at Yale University discovered that just the smell of spiced apples could ward off panic attacks and lower stress levels in some people.
NOTE: I am not a medical professional. Always check with your doctor when in doubt.
And then there's the depression that seems to descend upon many as the nights grow longer and daylight fades much earlier than in the warmer months.
Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) throws many people off balance. A craving for carbs may be the direct result of this. Stave off cravings by downing a cup of hot water with a teaspoon of ACV added to it. After a couple of days, you will be feeling better than ever.
And you thought vinegar was just for making salad dressing or cleaning windows. Surprise! It's an awfully handy thing to keep in the cupboard for so much more than that! Want more tips? Check out my book, VINEGAR FRIDAYS. It's bargain on Amazon for only $6.99.
So, how are YOU using vinegar today?
Thursday, November 3, 2016
Thursday's Truths & Tidbits -- Fall Gardening Tips
It's hard to follow up the past two days with the wonderful interview between Earth Mama® and my daughter Bethany. They're discussion about adopting and breastfeeding an NAS baby was informative and inspiring. Click here to check out Part One of the interview (there is a link at the bottom for Part Two).
My friend and guest blogger, Doris Dumrauf, offers some great tips for how to keep your yard in great shape for the wildlife during the fall and winter. You just might be surprised by her tips.
My friend and guest blogger, Doris Dumrauf, offers some great tips for how to keep your yard in great shape for the wildlife during the fall and winter. You just might be surprised by her tips.
From Yard to Wildlife Habitat
Fall is the time of year when avid gardeners tidy up their yards until they resemble a barren wasteland. But cleanliness is not a virtue if it deprives wildlife of important habitat.
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Flower seeds -- such as purple coneflowers, sunflowers, or asters, to name a few -- provide finches, chickadees, and other seed-eating birds with the necessary nutrition to survive the winter. Moreover, their seed heads add interest to an otherwise bleak winter landscape.
Do you hate raking leaves, but don't know what to do with fall's bounty? Leaves are much too valuable to place them on the curb on trash day. Try this instead: Use them as mulch around shrubs or in your vegetable garden; shred them and place them in your compost bin; or rake them into a corner of your yard.
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A pile of leaves provides habitat for birds such as white-throated sparrows, juncos, and towhees. Moths and butterflies overwinter as papae in leaf litter. Birds in turn rely on caterpillars to feed their young. The caterpillars that don't get eaten will delight you as beautiful butterflies next summer.
Offering a brush pile will endear you to ground-feeding birds who find not only shelter from the elements and predators during harsh winter weather, but also insects to sustain them.
These few easy steps will get you well on your way to turn your yard into a wildlife habitat.
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Doris Dumrauf is an award-winning photographer and author of "Create Your Own Backyard Wildlife Habitat" and the novel, "Oktober Heat." She is available for speaking engagements in the Greater Pittsburgh area and can be reached at doris@dorisdumrauf.com. Visit her website at www.dorisdumrauf.com.
Wednesday, November 2, 2016
Earth Mama® and my daughter -- The interview. Part Two: Breastfeeding an Adopted Baby
I have to be honest. I've waited a long time to share the story of my amazing daughter's breastfeeding journey. It's not a typical one and it was not, by any means, an easy one. I am ridiculously proud of her.
When I first shared her story with the mamas at Earth Mama®, they were extremely supportive. Now, one year later, they wanted to interview Bethany and help share her story with all of you.
To top it all off, you'll see that, at the end of the interview, Earth Mama® is hosting a giveaway -- 5 lucky ladies will each win a Milk-to-Go Pumping Companion Essentials set. Why? Because the mamas at Earth Mama® are simply awesome and they want to help you ladies along on your own breastfeeding journeys. You can read more about the prize at the end of the interview. But for now, I want to get on with the interview. It's one you don't want to miss!
Disclosure: This is a sponsored post. I received product and/or compensation in exchange for posting this interview. It also includes affiliate links.
Earth Mama®: You wanted to breastfeed your baby, but didn’t have breast milk at the time. It’s miraculous that it was even possible. Why was breast milk the best choice for you and your baby and how did you make that happen?
Bethany: From the time my husband Tom and I decided to adopt, I knew that I wanted to breastfeed and I had Tom’s full support. After I was matched for the adoption, I started researching induced lactation (or re-lactation). I stumbled upon the Newman-Goldfarb protocols and discovered online support groups for induced lactation, which gave me the encouragement I needed to move forward. Prior to finding a lactation consultant who was familiar with the process, I found there to be no help from my OB-GYN or PCP.
My first step was to rent a hospital-grade breast pump. Initially, I started pumping a couple of minutes every few hours, gradually increasing that to 15 – 20 minutes every 3 hours around the clock. This included setting my alarm to pump in the middle of the night. Within a week to 10 days, the first drops of milk appeared.
It's important to note that I nursed my biological son for 20 months starting in 2010. It’s been said that your body “remembers” producing milk, thus increasing one’s chances of successfully breastfeeding an adopted baby. However, there are many cases of first time breastfeeding success with adoptees.
Additional steps I took to establish my production of milk include:
• taking an herbal lactation booster pill
• drinking Earth Mama Angel Baby Organic Milkmaid Tea
• breastfeeding my niece (milk sharing, wet nursing)
• Domperidone
Within a few weeks, I was pumping enough to start freezing a few ounces of breast milk a day, in preparation for Luna’s expected due date six weeks later.
Luna was born two weeks early. By then, I was producing more than enough milk to provide for her needs. However, since I was not yet granted custody, hospital protocol prevented me from breastfeeding or supplying milk to the baby. At 4 lbs. 15 oz., Luna was considered a preemie, so the doctors insisted on fortification, initially of formula, and then of breast milk when I was finally able to provide it to her 2 days after her birth. Since the fortification was necessary, I had to bottle feed her in those early days, but I did bring her to the breast when she was 2 days old. Since Luna was an NAS infant, she had trouble latching properly. With a growing concern for her size, it was necessary to keep track of her caloric intake, so I continued bottle feeding pumped breast milk for the first month or so. By the time I reintroduced the breast, Luna wanted nothing to do with it. She insisted on bottles for another 3 months despite my daily attempts of bringing her to the breast. Miraculously, sometime between 4 and 5 months, she started latching onto my breast. By 5 months, she was breastfeeding exclusively and no longer had anything to do with a bottle. I was finally able to return the hospital breast pump I’d rented months before.
Earth Mama®: Had you even considered not breastfeeding?
Bethany: I’ve always believed breast milk is best and had planned to purchase from a milk bank if I was unable to produce milk of my own. This became more of a priority after we discovered Luna would be an NAS baby. I discovered a research article on PubMed outlining the particular benefits of breast milk for NAS infants. The benefits included:
• reduced neonatal abstinence syndrome severity
• delayed onset of neonatal abstinence syndrome
• decreased need for pharmacologic treatment, regardless of the gestation and the type of drug exposure.
After reading this, I knew this would be the only option for me.
Additionally, after breastfeeding my son, I recognized the incredible bond that exists between a nursing mother and child. If at all possible, I wanted that bond with my daughter as well.
Earth Mama®: What would you tell other adoptive mothers who want to breastfeed?
Bethany: Throughout history, others have breastfed babies they did not give birth to. Now we have the option to use formula, but we need to realize it’s not the only option. An adoptive mother can start preparing to breastfeed as soon as she decides to adopt. Even after a baby has been placed, it’s not too late to begin the process.
The amount of milk a mother will produce may vary. Some mothers will make no milk despite their best efforts while others will make all the milk their baby will need. While I did not have enough time to start a hormone therapy regimen, many mothers have found success by doing so.
At breast supplementers are another option for moms who want the bond of breastfeeding without actually producing milk. These supplementers enable moms to “breastfeed” with formula or milk from a donor.
Tenacity is of utmost importance throughout the entire process. If an adoptive mom really wants to breastfeed, chances are good it will happen. Getting your baby to switch from bottle to breast can be one of the most challenging obstacles to overcome. Had I given up in those early months, Luna and I would have missed out on the incredible experience and bond we now have. My advice is to keep trying.
Earth Mama®: What Earth Mama Angel Baby products helped you on your breastfeeding journey?
Bethany: As I mentioned before, I relied on the Milkmaid Tea as I was establishing my milk supply. Since I started breastfeeding Luna, I’ve had mastitis once and clogged ducts twice. The Booby Tubes were invaluable. As is the Natural Nipple Butter (which I also use on my lips every night).
Earth Mama®: I want to thank you, Bethany, for sharing this intimate glimpse into your life as the breastfeeding mom of an NAS adopted baby. You have inspired all of us.
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When I first shared her story with the mamas at Earth Mama®, they were extremely supportive. Now, one year later, they wanted to interview Bethany and help share her story with all of you.
To top it all off, you'll see that, at the end of the interview, Earth Mama® is hosting a giveaway -- 5 lucky ladies will each win a Milk-to-Go Pumping Companion Essentials set. Why? Because the mamas at Earth Mama® are simply awesome and they want to help you ladies along on your own breastfeeding journeys. You can read more about the prize at the end of the interview. But for now, I want to get on with the interview. It's one you don't want to miss!
Disclosure: This is a sponsored post. I received product and/or compensation in exchange for posting this interview. It also includes affiliate links.
Breastfeeding an Adopted Baby
| Photo by Frames of Infiniity |
Earth Mama®: You wanted to breastfeed your baby, but didn’t have breast milk at the time. It’s miraculous that it was even possible. Why was breast milk the best choice for you and your baby and how did you make that happen?
Bethany: From the time my husband Tom and I decided to adopt, I knew that I wanted to breastfeed and I had Tom’s full support. After I was matched for the adoption, I started researching induced lactation (or re-lactation). I stumbled upon the Newman-Goldfarb protocols and discovered online support groups for induced lactation, which gave me the encouragement I needed to move forward. Prior to finding a lactation consultant who was familiar with the process, I found there to be no help from my OB-GYN or PCP.
| It all started with a pump... |
My first step was to rent a hospital-grade breast pump. Initially, I started pumping a couple of minutes every few hours, gradually increasing that to 15 – 20 minutes every 3 hours around the clock. This included setting my alarm to pump in the middle of the night. Within a week to 10 days, the first drops of milk appeared.
It's important to note that I nursed my biological son for 20 months starting in 2010. It’s been said that your body “remembers” producing milk, thus increasing one’s chances of successfully breastfeeding an adopted baby. However, there are many cases of first time breastfeeding success with adoptees.
Additional steps I took to establish my production of milk include:
• taking an herbal lactation booster pill
• drinking Earth Mama Angel Baby Organic Milkmaid Tea
• breastfeeding my niece (milk sharing, wet nursing)
• Domperidone
Within a few weeks, I was pumping enough to start freezing a few ounces of breast milk a day, in preparation for Luna’s expected due date six weeks later.
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| Photo by Joelle Cowden |
Earth Mama®: Had you even considered not breastfeeding?
Bethany: I’ve always believed breast milk is best and had planned to purchase from a milk bank if I was unable to produce milk of my own. This became more of a priority after we discovered Luna would be an NAS baby. I discovered a research article on PubMed outlining the particular benefits of breast milk for NAS infants. The benefits included:
• reduced neonatal abstinence syndrome severity
• delayed onset of neonatal abstinence syndrome
• decreased need for pharmacologic treatment, regardless of the gestation and the type of drug exposure.
After reading this, I knew this would be the only option for me.
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| Photo by Joelle Cowden |
Earth Mama®: What would you tell other adoptive mothers who want to breastfeed?
Bethany: Throughout history, others have breastfed babies they did not give birth to. Now we have the option to use formula, but we need to realize it’s not the only option. An adoptive mother can start preparing to breastfeed as soon as she decides to adopt. Even after a baby has been placed, it’s not too late to begin the process.
The amount of milk a mother will produce may vary. Some mothers will make no milk despite their best efforts while others will make all the milk their baby will need. While I did not have enough time to start a hormone therapy regimen, many mothers have found success by doing so.
At breast supplementers are another option for moms who want the bond of breastfeeding without actually producing milk. These supplementers enable moms to “breastfeed” with formula or milk from a donor.
Tenacity is of utmost importance throughout the entire process. If an adoptive mom really wants to breastfeed, chances are good it will happen. Getting your baby to switch from bottle to breast can be one of the most challenging obstacles to overcome. Had I given up in those early months, Luna and I would have missed out on the incredible experience and bond we now have. My advice is to keep trying.
Earth Mama®: What Earth Mama Angel Baby products helped you on your breastfeeding journey?
Bethany: As I mentioned before, I relied on the Milkmaid Tea as I was establishing my milk supply. Since I started breastfeeding Luna, I’ve had mastitis once and clogged ducts twice. The Booby Tubes were invaluable. As is the Natural Nipple Butter (which I also use on my lips every night).
Earth Mama®: I want to thank you, Bethany, for sharing this intimate glimpse into your life as the breastfeeding mom of an NAS adopted baby. You have inspired all of us.
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I don't know about you, but I'm incredibly inspired by my daughter, Bethany, and her whole family. Her husband, Tom, has been an amazing helpmate, and her 6 YO son, Lincoln, is a terrific big brother. I'm one proud mama/grandma. And I'm head-over-heels in love with Luna! Click here to read Part One of the interview where Bethany talks about adopting an NAS baby.
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Let's celebrate Luna's life with this giveaway. Each winner will receive:
- Booby Tubes (1 pair)
- Organic Milkmaid Tea (16 tea bags)
- Natural Nipple Butter (1 fl. oz.)
- Happy Mama Body Wash (1.67 fl. oz.)
- Eco-friendly, Reusable Insulated Bag
- Recipe for Organic Milkmaid French Vanilla Chai
Giveaway runs until midnight EST on November 16th. Winners will have 48 hours to reply to an email before alternate winners will be chosen. Open to U.S. only. 18+
Good luck!
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Tuesday, November 1, 2016
Earth Mama® and my daughter -- The interview. Part One: Adopting an NAS Baby
Have you heard about the struggles NAS babies experience? If you haven't heard the term before, NAS stands for Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome. It is what happens when a baby is born to a mother who is addicted to narcotics during her pregnancy. A baby just like my youngest granddaughter, Luna. Today, I'm thrilled to feature the first of a two-part interview between Earth Mama® and my daughter Bethany, who, along with her husband, Tom, chose to adopt an NAS newborn. They carefully researched the syndrome and knew much of what was ahead. And they chose to adopt Luna despite the inevitable problems that awaited them. This is their story.
Adopting an NAS Baby
Earth Mama®: Bethany, you chose to adopt an NAS baby. What does that mean?
Bethany: Neonatal Abstinence Syndrome (NAS) refers to symptoms babies may have if their mothers used methadone or other narcotics during pregnancy. It's often called withdrawal. If a baby develops symptoms of withdrawal after birth, methadone or morphine may be used as a comfort measure to reduce symptoms. Withdrawal usually starts within 2 to 3 days after birth, but sometimes sooner.
Common symptoms include:
- tremors or shaking, even when asleep
- stuffy nose or sneezing more than 3 times in 30 minutes
- diarrhea that causes diaper rash
- feeding poorly, weak sucking, spitting up
- increased sensitivity to light, sound, or touch
- fussiness or excessive crying
- mottling of the skin (blotchy skin)
- fever
- increased muscle tone
- not sleeping between feedings
- sweating
NAS treatment with methadone or morphine can last anywhere from 1 week to 6 months, however the symptoms can last longer.
Earth Mama®: What special needs or problems did your baby encounter?
Bethany: Luna spent her first 15 days in medical facilities, starting with Pittsburgh's Magee Women's Hospital NICU and ending with the Children's Home of Pittsburgh, an independent, non-profit licensed organization, where I was able to stay with her. During that time, she was on morphine on a step-down program to manage her initial symptoms, which included most of the above, and to control the severity of them.
For the next 6 months, Luna struggled with sleep, not being able to remain asleep for more than 2-3 hours at a time. She spent the majority of her time awake crying. She started self-regulation therapy and milestone therapy as soon as she was released from the medical facility. She continues weekly sessions now.
Earth Mama®: How is your baby doing now?
Bethany: Luna is now one year old and thriving. We had a tough 6 or 7 months, but now there are more smiles than tears. She's still a little peanut, but nurses often throughout the day and is finally sleeping through the night. She loves to eat a fair portion of grown-up food and is meeting or exceeding all her milestones in therapy.
Earth Mama®: That's fantastic, Bethany. But you said something that I think will be surprising to many. You said she nurses often throughout the day. So you are, in fact, breastfeeding your adopted child. Let's talk about how that came to be in tomorrow's post.
Click here to read the rest of this fascinating interview where Bethany discusses the logistics of breastfeeding an adopted baby. PLUS, there's a fantastic giveaway sponsored by Earth Mama®! You don't want to miss it!
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