Earth Mama® and my daughter -- The interview. Part Two: Breastfeeding an Adopted Baby

I have to be honest. I've waited a long time to share the story of my amazing daughter's breastfeeding journey. It's not a typical one and it was not, by any means, an easy one. I am ridiculously proud of her.  

When I first shared her story with the mamas at Earth Mama®, they were extremely supportive. Now, one year later, they wanted to interview Bethany and help share her story with all of you.

To top it all off, you'll see that, at the end of the interview, Earth Mama® is hosting a giveaway -- 5 lucky ladies will each win a Milk-to-Go Pumping Companion Essentials set. Why? Because the mamas at Earth Mama® are simply awesome and they want to help you ladies along on your own breastfeeding journeys. You can read more about the prize at the end of the interview. But for now, I want to get on with the interview. It's one you don't want to miss!

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Breastfeeding an Adopted Baby

Photo by Frames of Infiniity

Earth Mama®: You wanted to breastfeed your baby, but didn’t have breast milk at the time. It’s miraculous that it was even possible. Why was breast milk the best choice for you and your baby and how did you make that happen? 

Bethany: From the time my husband Tom and I decided to adopt, I knew that I wanted to breastfeed and I had Tom’s full support. After I was matched for the adoption, I started researching induced lactation (or re-lactation). I stumbled upon the Newman-Goldfarb protocols and discovered online support groups for induced lactation, which gave me the encouragement I needed to move forward. Prior to finding a lactation consultant who was familiar with the process, I found there to be no help from my OB-GYN or PCP. 

It all started with a pump...

My first step was to rent a hospital-grade breast pump. Initially, I started pumping a couple of minutes every few hours, gradually increasing that to 15 – 20 minutes every 3 hours around the clock. This included setting my alarm to pump in the middle of the night. Within a week to 10 days, the first drops of milk appeared. 


It's important to note that I nursed my biological son for 20 months starting in 2010. It’s been said that your body “remembers” producing milk, thus increasing one’s chances of successfully breastfeeding an adopted baby. However, there are many cases of first time breastfeeding success with adoptees. 

Additional steps I took to establish my production of milk include: 

• taking an herbal lactation booster pill 
• drinking Earth Mama Angel Baby Organic Milkmaid Tea 
• breastfeeding my niece (milk sharing, wet nursing) 
• Domperidone 

Within a few weeks, I was pumping enough to start freezing a few ounces of breast milk a day, in preparation for Luna’s expected due date six weeks later. 

Photo by Joelle Cowden

Luna was born two weeks early. By then, I was producing more than enough milk to provide for her needs. However, since I was not yet granted custody, hospital protocol prevented me from breastfeeding or supplying milk to the baby. At 4 lbs. 15 oz., Luna was considered a preemie, so the doctors insisted on fortification, initially of formula, and then of breast milk when I was finally able to provide it to her 2 days after her birth. Since the fortification was necessary, I had to bottle feed her in those early days, but I did bring her to the breast when she was 2 days old. Since Luna was an NAS infant, she had trouble latching properly. With a growing concern for her size, it was necessary to keep track of her caloric intake, so I continued bottle feeding pumped breast milk for the first month or so. By the time I reintroduced the breast, Luna wanted nothing to do with it. She insisted on bottles for another 3 months despite my daily attempts of bringing her to the breast. Miraculously, sometime between 4 and 5 months, she started latching onto my breast. By 5 months, she was breastfeeding exclusively and no longer had anything to do with a bottle. I was finally able to return the hospital breast pump I’d rented months before. 

Earth Mama®: Had you even considered not breastfeeding?

Bethany: I’ve always believed breast milk is best and had planned to purchase from a milk bank if I was unable to produce milk of my own. This became more of a priority after we discovered Luna would be an NAS baby. I discovered a research article on PubMed outlining the particular benefits of breast milk for NAS infants. The benefits included: 

• reduced neonatal abstinence syndrome severity 
• delayed onset of neonatal abstinence syndrome 
• decreased need for pharmacologic treatment, regardless of the gestation and the type of drug exposure. 

After reading this, I knew this would be the only option for me. 

Photo by Joelle Cowden

Additionally, after breastfeeding my son, I recognized the incredible bond that exists between a nursing mother and child. If at all possible, I wanted that bond with my daughter as well. 

Earth Mama®: What would you tell other adoptive mothers who want to breastfeed? 

Bethany: Throughout history, others have breastfed babies they did not give birth to. Now we have the option to use formula, but we need to realize it’s not the only option. An adoptive mother can start preparing to breastfeed as soon as she decides to adopt. Even after a baby has been placed, it’s not too late to begin the process. 

The amount of milk a mother will produce may vary. Some mothers will make no milk despite their best efforts while others will make all the milk their baby will need. While I did not have enough time to start a hormone therapy regimen, many mothers have found success by doing so. 

At breast supplementers are another option for moms who want the bond of breastfeeding without actually producing milk. These supplementers enable moms to “breastfeed” with formula or milk from a donor. 

Tenacity is of utmost importance throughout the entire process. If an adoptive mom really wants to breastfeed, chances are good it will happen. Getting your baby to switch from bottle to breast can be one of the most challenging obstacles to overcome. Had I given up in those early months, Luna and I would have missed out on the incredible experience and bond we now have. My advice is to keep trying. 

Earth Mama®: What Earth Mama Angel Baby products helped you on your breastfeeding journey? 

Bethany: As I mentioned before, I relied on the Milkmaid Tea as I was establishing my milk supply. Since I started breastfeeding Luna, I’ve had mastitis once and clogged ducts twice. The Booby Tubes were invaluable. As is the Natural Nipple Butter (which I also use on my lips every night).

Earth Mama®: I want to thank you, Bethany, for sharing this intimate glimpse into your life as the breastfeeding mom of an NAS adopted baby. You have inspired all of us.

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I don't know about you, but I'm incredibly inspired by my daughter, Bethany, and her whole family. Her husband, Tom, has been an amazing helpmate, and her 6 YO son, Lincoln, is a terrific big brother. I'm one proud mama/grandma. And I'm head-over-heels in love with Luna! Click here to read Part One of the interview where Bethany talks about adopting an NAS baby.

Milk-to-Go Pumping Companion Essentials

Let's celebrate Luna's life with this giveaway. Each winner will receive:

• Booby Tubes (1 pair)
• Organic Milkmaid Tea (16 tea bags)
• Natural Nipple Butter (1 fl. oz.)
• Happy Mama Body Wash (1.67 fl. oz.)
• Eco-friendly, Reusable Insulated Bag
• Recipe for Organic Milkmaid French Vanilla Chai

Giveaway runs until midnight EST on November 16th. Winners will have 48 hours to reply to an email before alternate winners will be chosen. Open to U.S. only. 18+

Good luck!

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Win a Breastfeeding Essentials Bundle from Earth Mama Angel Baby

Welcome to the Honor the Earth Giveaway Hop, hosted by Happy Mothering and Brittleby’s Corner through the Green Moms Network! This April we want to help you Honor the Earth in celebration of Earth Day by giving you the opportunity to win some amazing eco-friendly prizes. 

After entering my giveaway, be sure to hop around and enter all of the other giveaways listed on the linky at the bottom of this post for your chance to win great eco-friendly gear!

When I started thinking about what to give away that would honor the earth, I couldn't help thinking about the way GMOs are destroying it. I often write about how GMOs are affecting our food supply, but today I wanted to share another concern I have: GMOs in our personal care products. It's something we don't think about a lot, right? But if there are food byproducts (like oils, etc.) in our personal care products, naturally, there is some danger of them being contaminated by genetically modified organisms. UNLESS we stick to organics, in which case they are GMO-free.

I know a lot of you are nursing moms. Have you ever thought about that nipple cream you're using? Unless it's labeled organic or non-GMO, chances are, you're breastfed baby is ingesting some nasty genetically engineered substances. Yck!

With all this in mind, naturally I thought of Earth Mama Angel Baby. And why not? When they say "zero toxins," they mean zero toxins. Let's take a look at their Natural Nipple Butter. This was the first lanolin free, Non-GMO Project Verified nipple cream on the market. Keep in mind that what goes on your skin ends up being absorbed by your skin and makes its way into your system. That's why I'm adamant about the skincare products I endorse.

By now, you're probably aware that GMO crops are Roundup Ready. What does that mean? It means they have built-in herbicides. Despite Monsanto's claims that this is safe for consumption, there are many experts who disagree. There is growing concern that glyphosate poses a grave danger to both animals and humans... not to mention what it's doing to the earth. It's almost unthinkable that even natural, holistic moms are introducing glyphosate into the bodies of their newborns through their breast milk, through no fault of their own.

Lanolin is another concern, as it comes from sheep sebaceous glands and can cause sensitivity in both mamas and babies. Since sheep are constantly treated with pesticides to ward off mites and parasites, the lanolin is tainted. Plus (as if you need any more motivation to steer clear of it), commercially processed lanolin comes from chemically scoured wool. Chemicals, chemicals, chemicals. Come to Mama, Baby, and sup on a chemical cocktail. No. No. No. 

Earth Mama's Natural Nipple Butter is carefully formulated and certified by Oregon Tilth and, like I said, is Non-GMO Project Verified. Now let's say it again, "Come to Mama, Baby." Yes. Yes. Yes. 



While they are striving to have all their products certified Non-GMO Project Verified, the facts are that the certification process is complex and expensive. Eventually, all EMAB products will bear the seal, but not until "FoodChain Global Advisors scrutinize every Earth Mama ingredient, from soil to seed, to plant." [from EMAB blog]

While anything that is Certified Organic is free from GMOs, the Non-GMO Project's Product Verification Program provides additional peace of mind. 

The mamas at EMAB provide a good answer to the question: What is a GMO? Here is some of what they say:

A GMO is a genetically modified organism, or basically any plant or animal whose genetic material has been altered using genetic engineering techniques... Unlike with traditional crossbreeding, GMOs could not occur naturally. 

Crops that are most likely to be genetically modified are: Alfalfa, Canola, Corn, Cotton, Papaya, Soy, Sugar Beets, Zucchini and Yellow Summer Squash. And here are some common ingredients derived from those crops: Amino Acids, Aspartame, Ascorbic Acid, Sodium Ascorbate, Vitamin C, Citric Acid, Socium Citrate, Ethanol, Flavorings ("natural" and "artificial"), High-Fructose Corn Syrup, Hydrolyzed Vegetable Protein, Lactic Acid, Maltodextrins, Molasses, Monosodium Glutamate, Sucrose, Textured Vegetable Protein (TVP), Xanthan Gum, Vitamins, Yeast Products.

So, breastfeeding mamas, take heart. You can trust the products for you, and for your babies, from the caring folks at Earth Mama Angel Baby. And they've graciously offered to give away a Breastfeeding Essentials Bundle, valued at over $35, to one lucky winner in the U.S. 

Mama's Breastfeeding Essentials Bundle includes:

• Organic Milkmaid Tea 1 box
• Natural Nipple Butter 2 fl. oz.
• Booby Tubes® 1 pair

Just enter below. Winner will be notified by email and will have 48 hours to respond before an alternate winner is chosen via Random.org.

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Disclosure: This contest will run through April 22, 2015 at 8:59 pm PST (11:59 pm EST). The winner will be chosen the following day and announced on Green Grandma. No purchase necessary. US entries only. Must be 18 years or older to win. This promotion is in no way sponsored, endorsed or administered by, or associated with, Facebook. You understand that you are providing your information to this blog and not to Facebook. Please note that Happy Mothering, Brittleby's Corner, the Green Moms Network and the Honor the Earth event bloggers are not responsible for sponsors that do not fulfill their prizes. We have represented each sponsor with the expectation they will fulfill their prize and in a timely manner. We will contact the sponsor regarding your prize(s). The sponsors, in most cases, are shipping their items to you directly. I will make every effort to assist you obtaining your prize. If there is an issue with a sponsor, please notify the blog you won a prize from within 4-6 weeks for assistance, after that we may be unable to assist you.

 

Starting off World Breastfeeding Week with a giveaway from Earth Mama Angel Baby!

We're celebrating World Breastfeeding Week here on the blog from now through August 7th. There will be stories, a poem, and giveaways to promote what I think is the best nutrition a person can have to start out their days here on this earth. I, myself, was formula fed. My firstborn, who I placed adoption, was formula fed. My two daughters, however, were breastfed for 12 months each, exclusively for their first six months. My three grandchildren are also breastfed. 

It is not my intention to make anyone feel as though they are "less of a mom" or that they deprived their children if they did not nurse their kids. I simply want to encourage moms-to-be to consider breastfeeding, and honor all those mamas out there who roughed it out during those first few difficult days or weeks or months. It's not always easy, as few things in mothering are. After all, it starts with labor!

So let's kick things off with a giveaway from the good mamas at Earth Mama Angel Baby, who were happy to donate a Breastfeeding Essentials Bundle to one lucky reader. Just enter on the Rafflecopter below.

And good luck!

US Only  Must be at least 18 to enter.


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