Another community member shares her breastfeeding story as World Breastfeeding Month continues...
I am a new mommy of a precious three-week old baby boy. I also had a breast
reduction five and a half years ago. They told me then that I might not be able
to breastfeed.
Honestly, at the time I was in my early twenties and I didn't
think breastfeeding would be a big deal for me. I wasn't even sure I even wanted
kids. Alas, I was in a lot of pain (back, shoulder, neck, chest, plus headaches)
and desperate for relief -- surgery being my last option. And it was the
best thing I ever did for myself.
When my husband and I decided to start trying
to get pregnant last year, I began educating myself on pregnancy, childbirth,
and motherhood. By the time we conceived, I knew I wanted to breastfeed. I also knew
it might be a struggle, but if it was at all possible, I had to try. I didn't
want to accept defeat before making an effort, so somewhere early in my third
trimester my husband and I prayed and just decided to carry on as though I would
certainly be able to nurse. During pregnancy my breasts didn't seem to grow
terribly much but I did have to get a bigger bra. Two or three weeks before I
delivered, I started noticing colostrum when I took baths. It was a great sign of
things to come. When my baby boy was born, my birth doula assisted me with my
first latch within a half hour of birth and he latched on like a champ.
In the days that followed, we struggled with his latch and we tried many
positions as well as a nipple shield. On day three, we finally found a position
that he did great with and it's been a go-to ever since. The day after we came
home from the hospital, my milk came in and I was engorged! It was so painful, but it
was a great problem! No milk supply worries; what a relief! Baby's weight and
diaper counts have been awesome, so I know my son is getting plenty of milk.
One week later, I had a clogged duct. I dealt with engorgement and the plugged
duct the same way... warm compress, massage, hand expressing, pumping, and
nursing, nursing, nursing. Latch struggles, engorgement pain, cracked nipples,
and plugged ducts did not deter me and I'm so happy to be able to give my baby
precious nourishment designed perfectly for his body by mine. It's one of the
hardest things I've ever done, and I considered giving up several times
(especially when bawling my eyes out in the middle of the night), but I know
it's worth it!
My biggest supporters in my nursing journey have been my husband and my
sister, but honestly I have a great network of supporters including family
members and other moms. My favorite product is Lansinoh 3-in-1 TheraPearl Breast
Therapy (for warm compress)--very soothing for sore breasts and is great right
before pumping. I also use Lansinoh's nipple cream.
I'm a happy nursing momma, three weeks and counting...
E. R. Arroyo, Tulsa, OK
If every momma had a wonderful support system, then more moms would continue their breast feeding journey! Love this story!
ReplyDeleteMe, too. It saddens me when moms give up simply because they don't have a support system helping them along.
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